3 Ways the Happiest Countries Live Better Than We Do

The world’s happiest countries have something to teach us.

Finland ranks No. 1 again in the 2026 World Happiness Report.

The United States? No. 23.

But look at No. 4.

Costa Rica.

Happy family sharing dinner
Happiness is better when shared. Photo: DisobeyArt / Adobe Stock.

It’s not one of the world’s richest countries.

But its people rate their lives higher than people in…

  • Sweden
  • Norway
  • Netherlands
  • Luxembourg
  • Switzerland

Why?

Here are their three treasures for a happier life.

1. The happiest people never forsake family

The 2025 World Happiness Report notes the strong family bonds in Latin American countries.

Family isn’t someone you belong to.

They’re the ones who show up for you in any situation. Think of family like a choir.

happiest countries, stronger connections
The happiest lives are often built around the people we share them with.
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How a Funeral Clues Us to a Deeply Satisfying Life

I attended a funeral recently where one thing stood out.

No one appeared to be standing off in a corner.

Everyone mingled with love, unity, and a deep appreciation for the life of this man.

Comforting embrace at funeral

There wasn’t an enemy anywhere.

The man’s son and daughter spoke in glowing terms with admiration and respect.

Is it possible to live a long and happy life, leaving no angry people in your orbit?

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A good father reveals three secrets for surviving disasters

Nothing like being a father.

I always knew Father’s Day was coming when Jack was little, because he would ask me what size cologne I wear.

Father and son
Steve and Jack Blaising at the Blaising farm December 2017/Kate Blaising

When I was raising teenagers, I had a satellite TV, a smartphone and a laptop and my kids told me I was out of touch.

Somebody said a father is a man with pictures in his wallet, where his money used to be.

Jokes aside, fathers are the ones we consult when unnatural disasters like war or mass shootings shake the world.

Since the Ukraine and Gaza wars are rattling our souls, I thought it appropriate to share my dad’s old school advice for surviving chaos.

My father at 93
Dad at his farm in Riesel, TX 2017/Kate Blaising

All his tips came on a filming trip to San Antonio by dad’s childhood landmarks.

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Draw Near: Two Words That Can Change Your Life

Two words can strengthen the most important parts of your life: draw near.

Draw near to what gives your life creativity, connection, and meaning.

Morning Glory Natural Bridge
Under the Morning Glory Natural Bridge near Moab, Utah. Photo by Bridget Guthrie.

Two words build bridges into the richest resources.

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How to Simplify Your Life in Three Minutes

Simplify and free up your life in three minutes.

That’s how long it takes to catch three treasures from this parable.

Simplify and catch happiness
Life by the river in Mexico/picture alliance/Getty Images

Standing on a pier in Akumal last week, I thought about Heinrich Boll’s 1963 tale of a Mexican fisherman.

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