3 Lessons About Aging I Learned From My 94-Year-Old Dad

My 94-year-old dad taught me something surprising about aging: growing older doesn’t have to mean growing old.

He faced heart failure, physical pain and the realities of old age with a combination of realism, optimism and faith.

Happy aging: reach and reflect
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Three lessons from his life changed the way I think about aging.

They may change the way you think about it, too.

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Before the Fire Comes: How to Prepare for Life’s Greatest Losses

Raging European wildfires remind us to prepare for life’s greatest losses before they arrive.

Wildfires are consuming parts of Spain and France at a staggering pace. Hundreds of thousands have evacuated, many leaving with only what they could carry.

Whether our greatest loss comes through fire, disease, betrayal, or tragedy, the time to prepare for life’s greatest losses is before the smoke appears.

Prepare Before Disaster
A resident walks through the devastation caused by wildfires in Spain. AP Photo/Manu Fernández
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How to Hope in the Middle of Any Crisis

Did you ever think hope could vanish as meaning itself grows thin?

Across cultures and countries, many people sense it.

  • Progress without purpose.
  • Motion without direction.

Life keeps moving, but fewer know why.

That’s why TV channels and streaming platforms replay epic stories again and again.

Stories like The Lord of the Rings.

Frodo Baggins and his companions live day and night in loss, pain, and darkness.

Tolkien enthusiasts adopted the catchphrase “Frodo Lives” to express hope in dark times.

God filled hope

For anyone in despair, three reminders can light up a dismal season.

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How to Find Christmas Magic When Everything Feels Broken and Hopeless

No matter your circumstances, Christmas is the way of hope.

Finding Christmas magic in 2025
A surprise gift waits for those willing to unwrap the mystery in 2025/Shutterstock

Logical?  No, Christmas is illogical.  It doesn’t make sense.

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Hope: 3 Powerful Strategies to Conquer Life’s Toughest Obstacles

Would you still have hope if the greatest of all tragedies struck you down?

Katherine Wolf does even though, at age 26 to date (now 42), she has survived . . .

  • a catastrophic brain-stem stroke
  • paralysis throughout her body
  • numerous falls with broken bones
  • aneurysm surgery unrelated to her stroke
  • multiple vertebral artery dissections
  • ongoing neurological issues
  • hearing loss
  • blind in the left eye and double vision in the right eye
Hope by Katherine Wolf

In spite of all this, she proclaims hope as she . . .

  • just published her third book, Treasures In The Dark
  • travels nationwide, speaking to thousands
  • sponsors a special-needs summer camp
  • opened a coffee shop staffed by special-needs folks

I heard her speak at a jam-packed Highland Park Presbyterian church service months ago. Her testimony has changed my life.

After reading her books and reflecting on what she says about hope, I see three proven relievers for overcoming despair.

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