Camp Mystic Flood: How to Transform Your Loss into Life-Changing Redemption

One year after the Camp Mystic flood, the devastating losses of July 4, 2025, still reverberate across Texas and beyond.

At the gym today, I saw an interview with three dads who lost their daughters in the flood, sharing how and why they maintain their unwavering faith in God.

Twenty-eight people at Camp Mystic died in that flood, including 25 campers, two counselors, and camp director Dick Eastland.

Across Central Texas, the catastrophic flooding claimed at least 137 lives.

The Guadalupe River rose 26 feet in less than an hour at dawn on July 4, 2025.

This is worse than a 100-year flood event, according to experts.

Approximately 100 billion gallons of rain fell on Kerr County, more than the daily flow of Niagara Falls.

Camp Mystic flood aftermath
Cabin where 20 girls went missing on July 5, 2025, in the Guadalupe River flood/Ronaldo Schemidt/gettyimages

Is it possible to storm-proof the future?

And later, loss?

Some folks say it’s never wise to camp by a river, especially one in the middle of “Flash Flood Alley,” where historic floods in August 1978 and July 1987 caused multiple fatalities.

But I think it’s fair to say there’s no place in the world to camp without risks.

An old Spanish proverb says, “There is no home which does not at some time know its hush.”

Three decisive steps may set a healing course for anyone drowning in tragedy.

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Mastering Life’s Challenges: How to Win the 5-Second Game

Ask Cowboys Defensive Coordinator Mike Zimmer, who unexpectedly lost his beautiful wife to natural causes in 2009 at age 50, how to master challenges like the sudden death of a spouse.

Life challenges Cowboys coach
Cowboys Head Defensive Coach Mike Zimmer faces family losses/Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images

Ask him how he coped when he got a phone call that his son and best friend, a talented NFL coach himself, was found dead on his couch alone in his apartment at age 38.

The sudden death of a spouse or a child ranks number one as life’s most significant stressor.

Ask Coach Zimmer how football, the game he loves, knows, and coaches is a metaphor for handling life’s toughest challenges.

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Free-falling grief in the holidays? Embrace the warmth that heals

Grief piles up for many in the holidays.

Recently, our senior pastor at Highland Park Presbyterian Church, Bryan Dunagan, died at age 44. His wife, Ali, and three children grieve a sudden loss as the holidays begin.

Just a few weeks later, another rising star, Jack Gibbons, age 36, co-founder of Bandera Ventures, died in a neighborhood auto accident, leaving behind his wife, Sarah, and their two-year-old daughter.

Sudden tragedies are like free-falling.

Free-falling sorrow
Free-falling grief/Oliver Furrer/Getty images

How do family members survive?

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Mourning dove: How to fly through grief with hope

Drinking coffee by the pool this morning, I was missing dad and heard a mourning dove.

He/she sat on the power line above our fence in the backyard.

Mourning dove on grief
Medicine for your loss in song by a dove/Jana Milin/iStock

Sorrow reminds us there is a hole in our heart.

A hole that can’t be filled by anyone else.

Missing folks gone from our lives happens in quiet moments.

Here are three relievers to hang onto during sorrow.

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Mysterious Visitor Emerges from Graveyard: Prepare to be Astonished!

I don’t know if I was stunned with joy more than grief when an unexpected visitor arrived almost the same time I did at my mother’s grave.

Unexpected visitor in graveyard
Moment after unexpected visitor departs/Mission Park South/San Antonio, TX

It happened at sunset after a long drive from Dallas to San Antonio.

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