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OK, time is short: How to use it for the most satisfying life

With age 71 just ahead, I’m running after time like Forrest Gump chasing that pickup.

Time pressed Forest Gump

According to the chart below, time’s not exactly on my side, even if I make it to 90.

Time left in life

So the real question is: how can I use the time I have left to live the most satisfying life?

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OK, time is short: How to use it for the most satisfying life

How Purpose Is Your Secret Key to Living Rich and Long

A new way of rethinking your purpose could be the boost needed for a rich and long life.

Rich life with purpose
The secret for living a rich life is in a well defined purpose/Steve Blaising/Lake Athens, TX

That’s what Gordon Christensen taught as a Harvard professor.

He knew that money and acclaim were not the most important metrics for success in life even though he was named the world’s most influential business thinker in 2011 by Thinkers50.

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How Purpose Is Your Secret Key to Living Rich and Long

Find Peace in the Midst of Fear: A Step-by-Step Guide

Gardens exude peace while growing through storms.

Thunder scares us. But, not flowers. They soak in water from the same storms.

Thunderstorm fear and peace
Flowers ready for thunderstorm/Juliasha/Dreamstime.com

Their beauty is not achieved without disorder.

Neither is ours if we see through the chaos.

Whether it be physical or mental suffering, three treasures await for those who look.

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Find Peace in the Midst of Fear: A Step-by-Step Guide

Why Your Secret Hiding Place Holds the Key to Wiping Out Anxiety

What do wildfires, heart attacks, and drunken sailors share in common with anxiety?

They show up unannounced, and you never know what they’re gonna do.

That’s why a hiding place is the difference between stability and a nervous breakdown.

It is a domain for unlimited strength and clarity, an antenna for answers to your biggest problems.

Anxiety you can’t handle

I wish a mentor had told me when I graduated from college, “Son, you have a great future.  It’s tremendously exciting, and the possibilities for your gifts and talents are unlimited.  But, you need an atomic fortress when all hell breaks loose because it’s going to explode often and in ways you can’t imagine.”

On second thought, I’m glad no one told me that because I probably would have holed up on a sailboat in the BVI for the rest of my life.

The BVI melts anxiety
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Why Your Secret Hiding Place Holds the Key to Wiping Out Anxiety

How Tyler Perry Turns the Worst Family Tragedies Into Triumph

When family tragedies strike, Tyler Perry stands as a shining example.

No, not Madea. Tyler Perry.

His movies are full of humor, faith, and old-school rules for healing wounds.

Tyler Perry family tragedies
Tyler Perry turns family tragedies into triumph/Kathy Hutchins/Shutterstock

Tyler was born into tragedy with a raging alcoholic father.

Abuse swarmed him and his mother day and night.

He didn’t even finish high school, so he earned a GED.

And yet Forbes listed Tyler Perry as the highest-paid man in entertainment by 2011.

“My childhood was a story of discouragement, belittlement and unthinkable abuse, and yet I rose above.”  Tyler Perry, Higher is Waiting

More than ever, folks in America are growing up in abusive homes.

I did.  That’s why I admire Tyler Perry.  He navigated abuse for 21 years before leaving home.

Racism and inequality are bad enough, but when you pile on abuse, success is much harder.

Tyler Perry overcame all three.

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How Tyler Perry Turns the Worst Family Tragedies Into Triumph