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Golden advice hiding at your great-great-grandparent’s grave

Imagine your great-great-grandparent’s ghost giving advice at their grave.

Advice like . . .

  • cheating chaos
  • capturing happiness

Walking up to my great-great-grandad’s tombstone, I imagined the Civil War veteran whispering.

A time travel tour ensued in Austin’s oldest cemetery.

His tombstone nudged me to Google his name, Alpheus B. Nuckols, Austin, TX.

One search shows he . . .

  • was a confederate veteran from Virginia
  • moved to Texas in 1891 and opened a photography studio
  • bought a house on Eighth Street in 1898

How do you go from defeat as a Virginia confederate soldier in 1865 and grow a photography business in Texas a few years later?

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Golden advice hiding at your great-great-grandparent’s grave

Like Tom Brady, Answer 7 Questions Before You Die

Tom Brady just answered seven questions anyone should before they die.

Tom Brady answers questions
Tom Brady Super Bowl LV/Mike Ehrman/Getty Images

In a Wall Street Journal Magazine interview (9/29/2021), Tom Brady mused over life’s biggest questions.

Here’s my take next to his condensed answers.

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Like Tom Brady, Answer 7 Questions Before You Die

Download the best option for most money decisions

In most cases, the best money decision during a panic is right in front of you.

Money making stock decision
Money making stock decision/Nikada/iStock

Do I sell stocks? Do I sell the house?

These questions share one thing: perception.

Perception that more satisfaction comes with a change to…

  • avoid loss
  • find greener pasture

Instead, most financial damage during a panic comes from making one unnecessary move.

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Download the best option for most money decisions

Roll by regrets in two simple words

An old psychiatrist once counseled a famous writer how to roll by regrets.

Skate over regrets
Regrets disappear with two words/Alternate Skate/Unsplash

Arthur Gordon, who’s career included editor of such publications as . . .

  • Esquire
  • Cosmopolitan
  • Reader’s Digest

said that two words are pivotal for overcoming regrets.

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Roll by regrets in two simple words

How Mentally Strong Folks Escape Traumatic Blowups

Mentally strong folks are not perfect.

They’re in balance.

Able to balance emotions with rational thinking.

This formula led Simone Biles to high honor.

Instead of pushing ahead with the “twisties,” she . . .

  • pulled back
  • re-centered
  • won a medal
Mentally strong Simone Biles
Simone Biles bronze medal 2020 Tokyo Olympics/Visual China Group/Getty Images

You don’t have to be flawless to succeed.

Just refuse three mental traps ready to devour your sanity.

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How Mentally Strong Folks Escape Traumatic Blowups