Child sex abuse: How shame crashed Trey Carlock into my dock

I still can’t believe that Trey Carlock, a child sex abuse victim filled with shame, drove his father’s boat at high speed in the middle of the night, crashing into my Lake Athens boat dock.

Shortly before, my oldest daughter, Lizzy, and I lounged right at the point of impact.

I have often reflected on that night, August 11, 2015.

My father always said, “Son, nothing good happens after midnight.”

In my sleep, I heard what I thought was an explosion.

But, the idea was so farfetched that I ignored the sound as a bad dream.

Nothing prepared me for what I saw the following day.

A young college grad, Trey Carlock, and his girlfriend drove his father’s boat into my dock.

The heavy rubber trex decking was blown right off the dock frame. Boat shards everywhere.

The lounging chairs Lizzy and I sat on minutes before were blown to the back of the dock.

Trey Carlock shame wreck
Chaise loungers thrown from the point of impact/Steve Blaising

Bodies? Didn’t see any.

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Unlock the Power of Faith and Creativity in Your Healing Journey

Better healing is enhanced by faith and creativity.

Not just any faith. Targeted faith.

Accelerate healing with creativity
Hasten the healing process with faith and creativity/Gajus/iStock

Before I clarify the target, let me reminisce about my last nightmare.

2019 was really scary as I hurtled through a strange disease.

My body lit up like a July 4th sparkler.

Nerves from head to toe misfired like a dying Terminator.

Google said, “You’re cooked.”

That’s neuropathy.

Fried nerves. No cure (they tell you). No solution.

Just drugs when you consult most doctors.

But faith led me down a better path for long-term healing.

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